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Permalink Reply by mariel on January 10, 2008 at 8:42pm

try to write a letter for him!
then, make it as your way of communication!

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Permalink Reply by Jhurish on January 12, 2008 at 8:31am

my boyfriend has a financial problem and i can understand that,.im his girlfriend right?i can feel that he's making lotz of effort,.do you think this relationship would workout? we do love each other,....thanks for those who gave their comments...i appreciate it....

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Permalink Reply by Altka on January 17, 2008 at 5:49am

of course it would work out if u guys really love each other...just be patient...

if u really miss him so much keep writing letters... greetings... but if he is not that active for the communication or he doesn't really show effort then ask urself that (does he really love you?)... answer and decision is your choice... good luck.. :)

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Permalink Reply by Ivane June Loberanes on January 17, 2008 at 6:20am

it is one of the most common problem of those people in relationship today and the fact is undeniable. anyways, going straight to the topic, as i can see there is a big dilemma on how you 2 could communicate. Why don't you try the old fashioned way like sending love letters and love notes. It may take quite a while but then its kinda sweet and romantic especially if the message comes from the heart. pour out your emotions on the letters and later, you will realize that it would strengthen your relationship. you may keep it forever..

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Permalink Reply by jade boyd on April 25, 2009 at 1:41pm

You should wait for some time then try to move on, Because the only way a long distance relationship can work is if you talk to eachother. I know it might be hard but you shouild move on and then if he come back around you might can try again. Umless you fall in love again with someone else.

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Permalink Reply by nance cortez on April 28, 2009 at 11:27pm

,,i can somehow relate from ur situation..
my bf and i were miles away from each other the day i gave him my sweetest "yes"..

were turning 4moths,and honestly speaking were going stronger..

GOOD COMMUNICATION will help keep the flame burning in your relationship..

if u can afford to buy him a average cellphone,or if u have extra phone..let him use it..

in that way it would be very easy for both of you to keep in touch..

dont mind what people would think about what you're doing..

i tell you,it would help..

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Permalink Reply by ANUM HUSSAIN on May 19, 2009 at 10:44am

hey dun worroy evry thng wl b f9 wd tym...n hn if he really luvx u dn he'll fnd a way 2 contact wd u...so dun woory hv faith n god n in him,.....

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Permalink Reply by Vikas Kumar on June 7, 2009 at 7:42am

If so, then it is already stronger... what you have to do all, is just go with it. As per your communication is concerned... I think currier is the best way :)

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Permalink Reply by Emmanuel Elijuafor on June 9, 2009 at 4:31am

1.Don't rely solely on email for contact.you need as much physical contact as possible so call when practical and be soothed and encouraged by the sound of each others voice. Send gently worn garments of your clothes so they can remember your distinct smell (maybe use their tshirt as your pillowcase)
2.Arrange to do the same things together even though you are apart. Plan to take a bubble bath at the very same time in your respective tubs or burn a candle at the same time, taking the moment to think about each other. Rent the identical movie on the same night and imagine holding hands while watching it. Call or email to talk about the movie the next day. If you have cheap long distance you can stay on the phone while watching the video together.
3.Visit his relatives if possible. It will help keep your lover present in your mind and draw all of you closer together.

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