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did we had a closure?

It was april 1998, and in the Philippines, we really observe the holy week. We usually go to our hometowns and take a rest for at least 2 days from city life. Here I met “him”. I always saw him before on my high school days. We went to the same school. But never really knew each other. And finally, that summer we bumped into each other and said hello. He got my number and called me when I got home. It felt like I was floating in the air. I always wanted to hug him to show how much I care, how much id like him to take me in his arms and hold me tightly. I was 18 then. After that, we have started seeing each other until finally decided to have a commitment. I loved him so much. We went through a lot. I felt that he might have loved me as the way I did. We went dancing in the rain. We went to other places. We spent time strolling around the town. We made love, not just once. He went to our house to bring me food. Hell, there’s nothing more I could ask. Then he left to study in a university. The days were never as sad before. He would call- once a week, a month then never. Was that it? Was it over? I never really had the chance to ask him. Now I am 31 and yet, his memory stayed in my mind. Do I have to ask? I am with somebody else now. And yes, I cannot forget him.

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Permalink Reply by mariel on January 10, 2008 at 8:37pm

your story is very interesting!
i hope that i could find someone like you had before!

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Permalink Reply by heaven on July 13, 2008 at 10:29pm

....i know how u feel because im feeling the same way as you do,i am with my special one now but still i cant forget the memories of that person....but i dont want to be unfair to my present now that's why little by little im teaching myself to forget him and stop loving him...i know u can do it too....

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Permalink Reply by Frann Chezka on July 18, 2008 at 10:24am

I think that you should not drag your past to the present. for the past is gone, and as well as a memories you are in a relationship and should make that relationship work.
Love the man you are with. you should be faithfull to the one you're with. You made a commitment to love him and stay with him, so make it work.

PS.

the man is already moved on.. so are you..

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Permalink Reply by Shelly Saylors on July 27, 2008 at 10:18am

Hi I once had the fairytale romance with a wonderful man.We had a great life or so i thought then one day i wake to find it wasn't what i taught myself it was.Sometimes you can move forward but still have the love for another.I have that love for this man and i am with a wonderful guy and i wouldn't trade it for that love again.I hope you find peace with yourself and the love that once was but can never be.

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Permalink Reply by Ivane June Loberanes on August 10, 2008 at 4:30am

For almost a decade or 2 without communication, i think it seems clear that he already put a boundary between your relationship. But the question is are you happy living your life without him? Do you know where he is now? If seeing him once again would answer these question, then, you have to find means to bump into each other. Talk to him. But oh God! you are already 31, you should move on and open your heart for another love. If you are really meant for each other, then, God will find a way for your romantic relationship to continue.

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Permalink Reply by jean on August 14, 2008 at 6:51pm

hi! you know what? i used to feeL the same way you feel before.. I coudnt m0ve on at first, because iam still h0lding on, on what i believe we had.. But i was awaken by the fact that, if his really up to me, if he cares about our past, he will do everything and anything just to work on what we have n0 matter what, n0 what ifs and n0 wasted time. you can do it..you can move on just like me.. you just have to look at the brighter side of letting go of him.. and embracing your present leaving all your fears and doubts behind.

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Permalink Reply by Isoh Maine on September 5, 2008 at 7:24am

It's called the first love. This love is one of its kind just as it is well said " we love once" that is the case here.It's love and infatuation together, the best thing to do is just tell yourself whenever you think of him that he is gone never to come.Though it hurts sometimes and makes you wanna cry it will also heals gradually without your realization. Otherwise wish you all the best friend

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Permalink Reply by jade boyd on April 21, 2009 at 1:44pm

You dont have to forget him, because im sure that he is thinking about you. Of course the one you love will never leave your mind but u have to be strong for yourself and your new relationship, because the more you think about him, the more it will reflect on your relationship now, and you dont want your past to destroy your future.

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Permalink Reply by khaled ahmed on May 28, 2009 at 4:48pm

your love is so sweety realy and i hopy to get ur freind again

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Permalink Reply by Carina on June 2, 2009 at 1:16am

Its nice to feel true love once in your life, but is it too much aged ago, of course no need to call him just to ask him bout your past it will not be appropriate, and it will not be good to know that still your thinking of him and you are with someone now, you know just keep it that way, think of it a way that lead to your man now and soon will be yours forever, everything in life comes to a test a small a big in all sizes, the good thing is it will teach you and give you someone along the way better than what you had before.