I just don't know what to do.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating a year, or, should I say would have been dating a year on March 24th. I had wrote down the day we started to date, something I never ever do for anyone, but this relationship seemed special. After all, he was a good friend of mine, a secret crush, and many other things before we started to date. But, anyway. I started to fall in love with him..Over time. It was a huge mistake, he fooled me. It turns out when he told me he loved me, hugged me, kissed me..It turned out he never meant any of it. It was all just an act. He had been cheating on me, with more than 1 girl I should just say.. He broke my heart, once again. Before him I had dated a total loser, my ex, who cheated on me to. He played me, etc. And is still a jerk today. I'd told my boyfriend everything about him, he acted as if he understood. That's how I became to trust him more without cheating on me. When I found about the girls, my heart tore. I didn't understand, yet once again. I broke up with him, feeling SO stupid.. He acted like that if I left him, I would be hurt, and stuff. And he wouldn't get hurt at all. he acted like it was all my fault, etc. My friends weren't much of a help, they'd all just tell me to forget him, move on. To just try harder. But they obviously don't understand..Losing someone you thought you knew so well that you loved them.. When I think about it, atleast a month ago we were together, telling eachother we love eachother..And the way I felt. I feel empty and lonely all the time now, not seeing how someone could be as cruel enough to play with someone elses heart. I always have these feelings that if I gave him another chance..He wouldn't do it. But then I know he would, once a cheater always a cheater. The way I feel is weird, it's like my heart says yes..But my head says no. No one is giving me any advice on what to do, how to forget him.. I'm just so confused.

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Permalink Reply by christina marie garcia on September 26, 2010 at 7:36am
look i dont kno yuu but let me tell yuu this...this is the same situation i was in. i was with my ex for a year nd 2 months, nd he acted as tho he loved me nd i was his world. i thought he was perfect. i loved him with all my heart nd still do till this day. i found out he cheated on me the fourth day we got together nd kept cheatin on me since that day. i lived with him nd everything nd never seen it cause i thought he would NEVER do something like that to me. but he did...to the point, some people are just cruel. they have no feelings for nothing but themselves. its been 4 months for me now. nd yuu kno i found someone who is even way better then he will ever be. trust me , forgettin bout the one who will hurt yuu will lead yuu to the one who will love yu unconditionally. just give it time nd yu will heal. <3 be strong nd keep yo head up!
Permalink Reply by Its like a puzzle}< on September 26, 2010 at 6:19pm
I've been where you are.... my boyfriend now. I fell
hard in love with him he was everything all the others
werent. He STOLE my heart!and then some.
Then come to find out he's just like the rest. I got access
to his My Space,his phone and a lot more. All kinds of
stuff just fell onto my lap. To make a long story short
I am still with him we have been through alot. Bitches,hoes
and Baby Mamas. We are engaged. Things are getting back
to the way we were.My sparring partner is back in the ring
with me.I used to be addicted to heroin come April I will
will be 5yrs clean.Call me crazy for forgiving him and agreeing
to marry him But if I can overcome the saying "Once and.
addict always an Addict. People can change. If it feels worth
it fight for it. My boyfriend and I met 8 yrs ago left each
other and found eachother again. Destiny.....:.*_....*%*
I hope this will help you...... I probably didn't. Good luck!
Permalink Reply by Jessica Lee on September 11, 2011 at 8:51pm
i know everyone says follow your heart, but sometimes your heart doesnt know what it wants.
Permalink Reply by KAKULANEX on September 17, 2011 at 10:56pm
Hello,i know how love hurts especially when you see someone you love with another person.
So....what you are going to do is to kindly take him to some where else for a private chat and tell him that you finally had enough and you know everything that was he is doing.
Ask him why did make love as game and cheating on you,while you are serious with his love.Tell him to make a deal,whenever you see him with someone else again with such kind of relation.you will not be lovers again even friendship and tell him that you will find someone that will not cheat you and be lovers forever.
Please try this idea if his cheatlove really hurts you and let me know if anything change or what ever happen.Hello,i know how love hurts especially when you see someone you love with another person.
So....what you are going to do is to kindly take him to some where else for a private chat and tell him that you finally had enough and you everything that was is doing.
Ask him why did making love as game and cheating on you,while you are serious with his love.Tell to make a deal,whenever you see him with someone else again with such kind of relation.you will not be lovers again even friendship and tell him that you will find someone that will not cheat you and be lovers forever.
Please try this idea if his cheatlove really hurts you and let me know if anything change or what ever happen.
Permalink Reply by Anmol Jambhulkar on September 18, 2011 at 5:50am
i think you should focus in other things,just try to forget him and one day u would get your true love definitely,the one with whom you were dating is just a big cheater...forget him,n whenever he would come in your mind just give him slangs
Permalink Reply by Stephanie on October 3, 2011 at 11:12pm
I know exactly how you feel! Your heart and head are totally conflicting and it is super confusing. I know it is hard because you are super attached to him and all the good thoughts and memories of him but you need to move on from him. It is going to be very hard but you deserve someone to be faithful to you. Trust me, he's out there! Keep going strong and show him what he is missing! Good luck!
Permalink Reply by crissy on October 28, 2011 at 11:19am
Hi!  A guy will always be a guy.  What I mean to say is, they have their true love and those he flirts with.  You're lucky enough if he's true with your relationship.  What I can say is, show him the best of you...the true you!  He will realize someday your value... Always take the risk...not all relationships runs like a fairytale.  Mostly, expect the unexpected so you will not get hurt that much in the end.  Smile and give your best shot at all times.  Love yourself first too! ;)
Permalink Reply by Matthew Richardson on November 9, 2011 at 4:26am

i don't know how you can forget him. if you loved him then you will always remember but you have to push past it the best way i have found to do that is to find someone else or just talk to someone and cry it off, i am a boy so i think that it is really different but i really hope you get filling better, also so you know its not just you, your story brought a tear to my eye as-well and that hopefully means something.

 

I SO WISH I COULD HAVE SOMEONE TO LOVE THAT CARED AS MUCH AS YOU!

Permalink Reply by Kyle Mto on December 8, 2011 at 7:41am

In your case, i should say that you should move on. It really hurts yeah.. you know that he've been broke your heart, its easy to say that we are goin to move on but its hard. I had a solution on that and i have learned how easy to move on. Do this and it will really help. First step is to throw all the things that he gave you, all the things that will remind you of him should be thrown in a trash bin. This is really serious, you have to let go all the excess baggage in your life for you to start the moving on process. 2nd step is to meet your old friends and try to divert your attention to other things such as doing your hobbies, focus in work, think of your dreams and GOALS in life that you want to happen in your future and work on it. This really works, try it! =)

Permalink Reply by Maria Paula Cabrera on December 11, 2011 at 11:52am

Hey im maria, i know how you feel...everything an change so suddently and then u wake up every morning wishing it was still the way it used to be and u thought it would be so perfect for a long time...i suggest that you find someone new!!!!!! i tried to move on before...it helps to forget a lot, becuae once your felings start to develop for one person the other feelings start to fade, even just a little...i hope you find the guy that makes you happy, it would be nice if you gave me advice on my sotry too, best of luck!

Permalink Reply by Anjani Peheli on December 14, 2011 at 7:12am

no dont giv him another chance unless he feels tat he truly loves u.. im sure u can find some1 better then him... ur friends are right.. move on...life has always stored something better for u.. b/c of someone u cant break down... always move on..

Permalink Reply by frank on December 22, 2011 at 8:25am
get yourself up and find another person...........

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