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I just don't know what to do.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating a year, or, should I say would have been dating a year on March 24th. I had wrote down the day we started to date, something I never ever do for anyone, but this relationship seemed special. After all, he was a good friend of mine, a secret crush, and many other things before we started to date. But, anyway. I started to fall in love with him..Over time. It was a huge mistake, he fooled me. It turns out when he told me he loved me, hugged me, kissed me..It turned out he never meant any of it. It was all just an act. He had been cheating on me, with more than 1 girl I should just say.. He broke my heart, once again. Before him I had dated a total loser, my ex, who cheated on me to. He played me, etc. And is still a jerk today. I'd told my boyfriend everything about him, he acted as if he understood. That's how I became to trust him more without cheating on me. When I found about the girls, my heart tore. I didn't understand, yet once again. I broke up with him, feeling SO stupid.. He acted like that if I left him, I would be hurt, and stuff. And he wouldn't get hurt at all. he acted like it was all my fault, etc. My friends weren't much of a help, they'd all just tell me to forget him, move on. To just try harder. But they obviously don't understand..Losing someone you thought you knew so well that you loved them.. When I think about it, atleast a month ago we were together, telling eachother we love eachother..And the way I felt. I feel empty and lonely all the time now, not seeing how someone could be as cruel enough to play with someone elses heart. I always have these feelings that if I gave him another chance..He wouldn't do it. But then I know he would, once a cheater always a cheater. The way I feel is weird, it's like my heart says yes..But my head says no. No one is giving me any advice on what to do, how to forget him.. I'm just so confused.

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Permalink Reply by jane on July 9, 2009 at 2:42pm

.. i feel what you have felt gurl :( so sad,, but try to make your self busy i know it wud really take time to forget him..just be aware also to recall the leisure moment you've done, i hope you cud move on and find the right one who is better than him .God is wise enough he has a plan for us. ^_^

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Permalink Reply by James Okeh on July 10, 2009 at 3:20am

hm mm, that's a very sad story, anyway you have gone through a lot baby, i feel for you, please i want you to understand that you heart might be leading you the write way or the wrong way, you never can tell, but i want you to do this....follow your heart, but live like your not living....let me expanciate, if he has realizes his mistake,go back to him, pretend to love him more than you used to, then watch his reaction for some months....but don't dare give him you heart again, he's no man enough to take care of it....

Best of Lucks in your Try.
Jboy

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Permalink Reply by Sush on July 15, 2009 at 3:52am

I know what is ur feeling, Insted of leave with his remember let go go way from him and be happy, Be busy with other activities please..............

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Permalink Reply by Aubrey on July 17, 2009 at 5:37pm

The more you force yourself to forget him the more you remember the good things you had together. For me, I would feel the pain until every bit of it is gone. Anyway, after being extremely sad you will surely be extremely happy just like me. Just keep in mind that being extremely happy doesn't always mean that everything is perfect. Otherwise you will be frustrated. Ü

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Permalink Reply by Jess on July 20, 2009 at 3:38pm

Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one.

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Permalink Reply by Ashley Axon on July 29, 2009 at 7:34pm

most guys are assholes and that is something that we all learn sooner or later. life is too short to waste your time on arrogent jerks like that! you deserve better than that!!

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Permalink Reply by Lisa Nicolia Ann Mcnilat on July 31, 2009 at 6:19am

ok... i must say this he is an asshole!!!

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Permalink Reply by mature boy on August 4, 2009 at 1:42pm

well... your just thinking that you can't forget about him when you CAN... so don't worry too much his just a guy... his not gonna do any good to you

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Permalink Reply by sunny on August 5, 2009 at 7:23pm

beleive in good he will do all best u should forgot him its difficult but this is better than to become fool again
byee

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Permalink Reply by yellow ahlexandrei rosas on August 5, 2009 at 8:48pm

my dear i had a boyfriend like your "ex"... he told me he change....that he really in to me...but heck.....i gave him a chance 'cause my heart says that "i can't go on with my life without him"..... and i really really love him... but heck once again he broke my heart into pieces... and the sad thing is...... he left me for my cousin.....

move on dear.... find someone.....someone who can give you his whole wide world........

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Permalink Reply by harley enco on August 29, 2009 at 8:25am

wait until u find ur true love and dont waste time on jerks (^.~)

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Permalink Reply by Kate on September 5, 2009 at 9:07am

I know exactly how you feel. I had the same experience with my former bf. You are right once a cheater always a cheater. But, I also believe that love can change a cheater it only means one thing he doesn't love you because you never cared if you got hurt. When you love someone you;ll do anything not to hurt your love ones but he was not like that to you. So, the best solution is make your self busy. Find a good hobby or something and go out have fun with your friends When I broke up with my ex I looked for another job thats why I have two jobs now. But try not to find a new boyfriend because you still love your ex you might hurt yourself or the new guy. I know it's hard to forget him but you don't need to forget him you need to let him go and move on. I hope this could help.