I just don't know what to do.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating a year, or, should I say would have been dating a year on March 24th. I had wrote down the day we started to date, something I never ever do for anyone, but this relationship seemed special. After all, he was a good friend of mine, a secret crush, and many other things before we started to date. But, anyway. I started to fall in love with him..Over time. It was a huge mistake, he fooled me. It turns out when he told me he loved me, hugged me, kissed me..It turned out he never meant any of it. It was all just an act. He had been cheating on me, with more than 1 girl I should just say.. He broke my heart, once again. Before him I had dated a total loser, my ex, who cheated on me to. He played me, etc. And is still a jerk today. I'd told my boyfriend everything about him, he acted as if he understood. That's how I became to trust him more without cheating on me. When I found about the girls, my heart tore. I didn't understand, yet once again. I broke up with him, feeling SO stupid.. He acted like that if I left him, I would be hurt, and stuff. And he wouldn't get hurt at all. he acted like it was all my fault, etc. My friends weren't much of a help, they'd all just tell me to forget him, move on. To just try harder. But they obviously don't understand..Losing someone you thought you knew so well that you loved them.. When I think about it, atleast a month ago we were together, telling eachother we love eachother..And the way I felt. I feel empty and lonely all the time now, not seeing how someone could be as cruel enough to play with someone elses heart. I always have these feelings that if I gave him another chance..He wouldn't do it. But then I know he would, once a cheater always a cheater. The way I feel is weird, it's like my heart says yes..But my head says no. No one is giving me any advice on what to do, how to forget him.. I'm just so confused.

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Permalink Reply by gultu nandi on September 8, 2009 at 11:48am
hey its impossible for me to give advice on ur situation coz i havnt xperienced this but u have to face the reality.dont start dating sum1 else just to forget him. u dont need advice u . accept the truth as fast as possible.it will take time but the faster u do it the better will it be for u.
and nxt time give ur heart to someone more carefully coz you are not someone to be played with!
Permalink Reply by MeeZtSiniTa0o5 on September 18, 2009 at 4:20am
whew.. soooo sad.. but you can still move on from that... just find someone better than him..
Permalink Reply by Joanna Carla on September 23, 2009 at 11:17pm
I know someone with the same situation.. she's pretty but no guy has ever taken her seriously no matter how much effort she had exerted on all her relationships. I know it's so easy for friends to say to forget someone when they are not in your situation. However; that's the most obvious answer to your problem. You just need some time to get over it totally. In the meantime, just keep yourself busy. Ignore him as much as possible. Erase his number from your phonebook, erase him from your friends list, and put away all those things that reminds you of him. Bear in mind that there is always someone better than your ex who would treat you right and love you back the way you are supposed to be loved. Think of your own welfare.. Life is beautiful to just spend it with someone unworthy of your attention, care, and love.
Permalink Reply by lara croft on September 28, 2009 at 11:19am
try to grow stronger. be careful with the next guy, dont just throw yourself on him. the only guy who deserves you is the one who thinks he doesnt.
Permalink Reply by femarie bella hernandez on September 29, 2009 at 1:20am
follow your head girl because it will make your heart not to torn into pieces again...
Permalink Reply by ADEDEJI McVINCENT on September 29, 2009 at 9:16am
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Permalink Reply by Scott Samson on September 30, 2009 at 12:30pm
1. Meet new people
2. Find a guy in that category of new people that shares similar interests
3. Date said guy
4. Repeat as necessary
Permalink Reply by Jacqueline Morales on October 6, 2009 at 7:38am
the only thing you can do is forget about him....i been going threw the same thing....i know is hard and all you need to go is first stop thinking about him and forget all the lies he told you.
Permalink Reply by Masaaki Kastura on October 28, 2009 at 1:43am
Well,is the best thing that you share here because a lot of advise will be given here what and how to do. Well in this world there is a lot that never appreciate love. They just want to gain something or fill up their loneliness. You should not waste time on someone like that or else the one hurts is you. Maybe is just unlucky or not the time for you to get in love. Love is beautiful but some people just mess up with it and making us just afraid to in love anymore. Those playboy will suffer one day. Just keep on living to find someone who really love you. Time past and everything will get better. Self-confidence will be the best. : )
Permalink Reply by sky on October 30, 2009 at 10:28pm
Don't do anything..you are right. he fooled you once.he can fool you again if ever you give him a second chance. He should be the one asking for your forgiveness and attention. Dump him totally, and busy yourself with meeting other guys, Cheaters don't deserve a seond chance. In time, you will forget him , believe me , girl. I've been through that before and I survived. You can do it...FORGET HIM! Good luck!
Permalink Reply by Lauren Mary on November 1, 2009 at 3:07am
There is unfortunately nothing you can do but wait for the day when it all stops hurting.

The best thing to do is find something that you are passionate about and throw yourself into it. This may be art, music, sports, it could be anything. When you spend your time focusing on this instead of him, the time will pass by more quickly.

It will all work out. You are going to meet someone and you will know that they are the one when you like them more then you ever liked these idiots. When you meet "the one", it will have made all of this horrible time worth it.

Embrace the fact that you were strong enough to get out of sucha destructive relationship because a lot of women can't. You deserve to pump the volume of your speakers to "Best Days Of Your Life" by Kellie Pickler. You will feel empowered and ready to face anything :)

Stay strong.
"Those who do not weep, do not see"-Les Miserables.
Permalink Reply by can't tell on January 8, 2010 at 11:31am
well the one i loved cheated on me too, but as ur friends tell you to move on, i also had to just move on, its been about 6 months since i last saw her and i still remember her, it is hard and it will be hard for u too, but try to move on,
the first step i took was to nerver see her again, threw out all things that reminded me of her including her phone no. and email then i just waited for time to pass and wished her memory would fade away with time.

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