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I just don't know what to do.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating a year, or, should I say would have been dating a year on March 24th. I had wrote down the day we started to date, something I never ever do for anyone, but this relationship seemed special. After all, he was a good friend of mine, a secret crush, and many other things before we started to date. But, anyway. I started to fall in love with him..Over time. It was a huge mistake, he fooled me. It turns out when he told me he loved me, hugged me, kissed me..It turned out he never meant any of it. It was all just an act. He had been cheating on me, with more than 1 girl I should just say.. He broke my heart, once again. Before him I had dated a total loser, my ex, who cheated on me to. He played me, etc. And is still a jerk today. I'd told my boyfriend everything about him, he acted as if he understood. That's how I became to trust him more without cheating on me. When I found about the girls, my heart tore. I didn't understand, yet once again. I broke up with him, feeling SO stupid.. He acted like that if I left him, I would be hurt, and stuff. And he wouldn't get hurt at all. he acted like it was all my fault, etc. My friends weren't much of a help, they'd all just tell me to forget him, move on. To just try harder. But they obviously don't understand..Losing someone you thought you knew so well that you loved them.. When I think about it, atleast a month ago we were together, telling eachother we love eachother..And the way I felt. I feel empty and lonely all the time now, not seeing how someone could be as cruel enough to play with someone elses heart. I always have these feelings that if I gave him another chance..He wouldn't do it. But then I know he would, once a cheater always a cheater. The way I feel is weird, it's like my heart says yes..But my head says no. No one is giving me any advice on what to do, how to forget him.. I'm just so confused.

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Permalink Reply by Lauren Mary on November 1, 2009 at 3:07am

There is unfortunately nothing you can do but wait for the day when it all stops hurting.

The best thing to do is find something that you are passionate about and throw yourself into it. This may be art, music, sports, it could be anything. When you spend your time focusing on this instead of him, the time will pass by more quickly.

It will all work out. You are going to meet someone and you will know that they are the one when you like them more then you ever liked these idiots. When you meet "the one", it will have made all of this horrible time worth it.

Embrace the fact that you were strong enough to get out of sucha destructive relationship because a lot of women can't. You deserve to pump the volume of your speakers to "Best Days Of Your Life" by Kellie Pickler. You will feel empowered and ready to face anything :)

Stay strong.
"Those who do not weep, do not see"-Les Miserables.

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Permalink Reply by can't tell on January 8, 2010 at 11:31am

well the one i loved cheated on me too, but as ur friends tell you to move on, i also had to just move on, its been about 6 months since i last saw her and i still remember her, it is hard and it will be hard for u too, but try to move on,
the first step i took was to nerver see her again, threw out all things that reminded me of her including her phone no. and email then i just waited for time to pass and wished her memory would fade away with time.

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Permalink Reply by Jeaune Wadjad on January 20, 2010 at 5:27pm

...d situaton ur in angel s indeed very hard...not only u hav lost d one you love,but d feeling of betrayal,of being cheated makes it more unbearable!...i cant give u any advice for i know things are easy said than done,specially wen it deals w d heart.>>>all i cud say is,maybe it is part of God's plan for u....that he is not good for u,so as early as it is, God made u see dat u deserve better than him....uL get healed,in time! just be strong ,ok!..keep the FAiTH! =)

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Permalink Reply by Remcy on January 23, 2010 at 12:10pm

well.i know wats ur feelings..hmmm....yea ur ryt its not easy to forget someone..especially the special person that makes your world complet,i also feel that way! Im AFRAID OF LOOSING MY LOVE...so i became like a selfish one!and all the people sorrounds me say's im so selfish and bad..but for me its not..coz if u fall in love just hold tight for u not to blaa blaa blaaa!i know u can make it!

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Permalink Reply by lilian gosbert on February 1, 2010 at 1:24am

god has reasons dont use ur brain let him do that job

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Permalink Reply by eliska kates on February 9, 2010 at 12:32am

oh, what a sad story, but this is not the end of everything. im sure someone will come to you and love you more than the way you wanted to be love. love will come at the right time, right place, right person.

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Permalink Reply by Ashlyn Mariee on March 17, 2010 at 5:22pm

girrl, i think you should just move onn from him. it might be hard but its a good thing to do

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Permalink Reply by honey ranea on April 16, 2010 at 8:28pm

I've been there to hunni your not alone and it took me some time to get over that dog!!.but i finally did by trying to find someone better then him and telling my myself "not to worry about him he just lost something good". lol.
but i hope you boost yourself up and get better

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Permalink Reply by dennis mudzinganyama on May 3, 2010 at 3:25am

I am so sorry for what had happened but I believe that good things are along ur way. Just forget about that closed door and look forwad .

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Permalink Reply by shelly agal on May 18, 2010 at 8:18am

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