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I just don't know what to do.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating a year, or, should I say would have been dating a year on March 24th. I had wrote down the day we started to date, something I never ever do for anyone, but this relationship seemed special. After all, he was a good friend of mine, a secret crush, and many other things before we started to date. But, anyway. I started to fall in love with him..Over time. It was a huge mistake, he fooled me. It turns out when he told me he loved me, hugged me, kissed me..It turned out he never meant any of it. It was all just an act. He had been cheating on me, with more than 1 girl I should just say.. He broke my heart, once again. Before him I had dated a total loser, my ex, who cheated on me to. He played me, etc. And is still a jerk today. I'd told my boyfriend everything about him, he acted as if he understood. That's how I became to trust him more without cheating on me. When I found about the girls, my heart tore. I didn't understand, yet once again. I broke up with him, feeling SO stupid.. He acted like that if I left him, I would be hurt, and stuff. And he wouldn't get hurt at all. he acted like it was all my fault, etc. My friends weren't much of a help, they'd all just tell me to forget him, move on. To just try harder. But they obviously don't understand..Losing someone you thought you knew so well that you loved them.. When I think about it, atleast a month ago we were together, telling eachother we love eachother..And the way I felt. I feel empty and lonely all the time now, not seeing how someone could be as cruel enough to play with someone elses heart. I always have these feelings that if I gave him another chance..He wouldn't do it. But then I know he would, once a cheater always a cheater. The way I feel is weird, it's like my heart says yes..But my head says no. No one is giving me any advice on what to do, how to forget him.. I'm just so confused.

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Permalink Reply by Anjani Peheli on December 14, 2011 at 7:12am

no dont giv him another chance unless he feels tat he truly loves u.. im sure u can find some1 better then him... ur friends are right.. move on...life has always stored something better for u.. b/c of someone u cant break down... always move on..

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Permalink Reply by frank on December 22, 2011 at 8:25am

get yourself up and find another person...........

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Permalink Reply by Chloe White on December 27, 2011 at 6:44am

Guys like this aren't worth the pain, trust me. i think you should just forget all about him cause people like that just ruin your life, and brake ur heart. and yeah ur right most people dont get it, and they just say like fuck it, ull find someone else. When your actually broken inside hay. but the best thing to do is if you still like him talk through with him about it and try and discuss why he did it.. and maybe give him a second chance But if you dont want to give him any more chances just forget about him like i said not worth the pain unless your really in love. i hope that helped :)

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Permalink Reply by hermella alem on December 27, 2011 at 7:33am

i know its very difficult situation but you cant say once a cheater is always a cheater .....he might change his behaviour .....who knows.......... he even can be better than ever...... still u need to chek if he is willing to never do such things again and if he regereted what he did.......then follow you heart is my advice

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Permalink Reply by passang thai on January 3, 2012 at 9:12am

fucking bullshit...

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Permalink Reply by elmera on January 6, 2012 at 10:17pm

i think i can not give u any advice cos i feel the same with u. i had only one relationship. i loved only one boy. i talked only one boy. it seemed stupid but i did. he did betray me. i also. but there was some arguments he loosed. we have arguments about our family.now i am not trying to find another boyfriend i study at universety. i try to study hard. i dont try to forget him. i just remember him as a my fault.

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Permalink Reply by Sofia F. Serrano on January 28, 2012 at 8:29pm

u know, just be open to lots of possibilities.......

bare in mind that u've survived the cheating of ur ex, and why not him??

time may not heal all wounds but it'l teach u to live without that man..

there's no point mourning over a foolish man...it'l pass by, trust me..

ul see, u will somehow find the man who will truly love u..

-yet, sometimes he may fool u around but still ur the one he loved most..and may be at some other time he'll find it out:)

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Permalink Reply by passang thai on January 29, 2012 at 6:50am

you know, most the guys does these kinds of games with a girl. Flirting is the most of the guys hobby. But being a girl you have the study a guys for few months before you say,"i love you too " to them. i can understand being a guy.

But girl, you dont have to confused for what he did to you and you dont have to upset. Always remember,"1 goes 1000 comes".

ALL THE BEST.

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Permalink Reply by Hannah James on Monday

Its same thing with me my dear, just focus on things you really hate about him, thats what is helping me, and am getting over him slowly and i pray to God to help me. Although i had a baby for him, see how tough it is. U'll have to move on dear. Wiah this could help you.

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Permalink Reply by sandra brack-engles on Monday

Stay focused! This was not your fault! This guy played with your emotions, he knew your weaknesses. He knew too much about you, your routines. this is how he was able to carry on these multiple affairs. Keep your head up and pray. No one can tell you what to do or how to feel. Only what they would do so If I were you I would not give this joker the satisfaction of knowing or seeing how much he has hurt me. Pick yourself up dust yourself off and get back in the game. Let go of the past and walk into your future young lady.There is a young man just for you be patient, and dont be afraid to love again.and remember This too shall pass