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Permalink Reply by Carina on July 7, 2009 at 10:38pm

Hi Kelly,

You should not, if your trully happy with him then why you both just make in something new, you just fantazising it, and it will pass, try make new things between you both, but not including this, because these things is not normal, and may lead to some complications.

"one things leads to another"

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Permalink Reply by margarette espanol on July 8, 2009 at 6:00pm

why do you have to fantsize having sex with a woman..look girl, i know that sex is an important factor to make a relationship work..but it doesn't mean that you have to make it with the same sex...you have your boyfriend beside you and is willing to give you everything..aren't you happy yet that you have someone loving you?you are lucky to have this man..it's really wrong to make it with a same sex...is having sex with a woman will make you happy?ask your self..you are old enough to know what is wrong and what is right...make up your mind with what you wanted to do or what is the right thing to do...

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Permalink Reply by Kelly Morris on July 9, 2009 at 10:00am

I guess I dont believe its wrong to have sex with a member of the same sex....thats not really why this is difficult. I love my boyfriend we are planning to have children and buy house, he is already raising my son....I have no intention of ever being in another relationship, that is the problem I really have an urge to experiment with women but I would stay with him given the choice between the two.

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Permalink Reply by Nina Star on July 8, 2009 at 6:33pm

Hi Kelly!

I found your post very interesting and I've been thinking about it for the past few minutes. You mentioned that your boyfriend is older but how much more experience does he really have? If you're looking for something new and more spice in the bedroom, there are lots of things that you can do! Whipped cream, sexy laundry, chocolate and strawberries all make for a very fun evening. Have you maybe suggested going to a nice hotel for an anniversary or maybe doing something different?

When growing up, a lot of people ask themselves if they are gay or not. Some people are not gay persay but like to have fun with the same sex sexually. For example, It is even sociably acceptable for girls to kiss girls when they're drunk in clubs now.

If you're having fantasies about other women, it may be because you either want to try it or because you want to satisfy your boyfriend. Or it could even be because something is lacking in your bedroom relationship. Whatever the reason may be, I think that you should tell your boyfriend that you may want to try something new. You don't have to spit it out right away that you want to have a threesome but at least let him know that you may be bored with your current "fun time". See what he says!

And just remember this, almost no straight man on the face of this earth would say no to a threesome. But the problem is that bringing in a third party would most likely ruin the relationship. Two's company, three's a crowd? I suggest you choose wisely in this situation. Good luck! :)

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Permalink Reply by Kelly Morris on July 9, 2009 at 9:55am

Mt boyfriend is ten years older, he was married and before he was married he was very promiscuous, I have never been married or promiscuous. A lot of things that we have tried I have really enjoyed and I think I am feeling like I can trust him enough to try new things. But I agree I dont think that it is good for the relationship thats why this is so hard for me.

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Permalink Reply by loveguru on July 9, 2009 at 3:41am

just practise what carina says.. its true.. complications can arise anytime.. you young and things sometimes doesnt go well.. so enjoy life the way it is...

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