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I am in a more than 1 year relationship, in this 1 year we have different arguments with my boyfriend. I can't blame him to mad at me 'coz I know I am also sometimes weird, or unpredictable attitudes that I eventually show up to him. I easily got mad and bored that's why. But he understands for that matter. The only thing that I hate about him is that, he always denied for all his wrong doings. I caught him texted another girl. He told to that girl is "are you busy? can we meet today?" ..But before that, my boyfriend asked me to go out but I refused him, so I think he assured that we don't meet that time. But I surprised him in their house, I go there. But I am the one who surprised because I caught him with another girl. He asked forgiveness, I forgive him. He asked one more chance, I gave. But still he cheated me again...not only once but thrice. Help me if I still continue my relationship with him or I stop it now..Thank you..I wait for the response..

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Permalink Reply by Keke obinna paddy on January 8, 2012 at 1:46am

The guy is a bad friend and does not deserve a person like you. He must be faithful to you or better quit for a good guy who is trustworthy. I wish you the best of luck.

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Permalink Reply by LINGSOY YU on January 8, 2012 at 2:02pm

he`s not worth the disappointment and i think you should dump him , even if its hard and it hurts but if he really loves you then he wouldnt cheat, he wont repeat the same mistake he did to you. :)

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Permalink Reply by Michael Eng on January 11, 2012 at 7:32pm

Throw him away, get a new shirt.
If he cheats you, you cheat him back, let him know the feeling of being cheated.
be a bad-ass instead of ignoring it. :)

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Permalink Reply by LINGSOY YU on January 20, 2012 at 10:54pm

how will we let the guy know the feeling of being cheated ? coz i think im in the same place .

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Permalink Reply by Andre Gonzaga on January 12, 2012 at 3:50am

hi,, good eve,. my advice for u is to go.. i mean leave him.. dont give more chance 2 that guy.. kahit na mahal mo xa db.. 2nd chances is enough.. 3rd chances is over.. sometimes loving is fatal, naka2matay.. mayb u should not let him do that again.. u must end ur relationship.. ikaw na mismo ang lumayo.. walang mangya2ri kung ganyan nalang lage.. i know its hard but u should have to.. umiyak ka lang.. walang masama.. coz 1 day,, masa2bi mo nalang sa sarili mo na. "it was just another day, nalagpasan ko pala.." submit ur self into pain.. ^^

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Permalink Reply by Lourdes Daniela Portillo Paz on January 16, 2012 at 6:54pm

well, I agree with them... i think u should dump him but in the future when u do find someone just try to spend more time with that individual - i'm not implying is your fault he cheated but if he really love u he wouldn't be cheating on u and in the other hand if u loved him u wouldn't get bored easily... just think and analyze the relationship

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Permalink Reply by Ovisopto Nil on January 18, 2012 at 9:04pm

Kick out him. Character can not be changed. Its very tough.

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Permalink Reply by Muhammad Yameen on January 26, 2012 at 12:22pm

all i can say kick him

no more contact

busy yourself with your other good friends

it is the exam of your WILL POWER

wish you all the best

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Permalink Reply by Aarti kumari on January 28, 2012 at 9:40am

R U MAD .HE CHEATED ON YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME "SORRY IT WAS A MISTAKE".OK SO U FORGAVE HIM.THEN HE CHEATED ON YOU SECOND TIME AND THEN THRICE .MISTAKE IS DONE ONCE OR TWICE BUT NEVA AGAIN AND AGAIN.I THINK HIS CHEATING ON U QUEUE WON'T STOP AT ALL.SO JUST MOVE ON.HE IS VIVIDLY CHEATING ON YOU AND WAKE UP NOW ATLEAST..........

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Permalink Reply by Aarti kumari on January 28, 2012 at 9:44am

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Permalink Reply by romeo-jane on January 30, 2012 at 10:12pm

i would suggest to leave him! that kind of person is not worth for you, he made it 3x how much more when u get married,, he would do it again and again..