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He cheated on me with some girl that i talked to&& now we are broken up, but when i see him i can't help but cry or get sad.

I should hate him, but I don't.

How do i get him off my mind, or how do i get him to want me?

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Permalink Reply by Nicky on March 12, 2010 at 2:03am

Girl only if you can recognise your true worth - you wont be so desperately trying to let him "wanne want you". If he loves you he would never hurt you in any way. This guy is not worthy of you! Stop feeling sorry for yourself... Stand strong, realise that you dont deserve a half hearted love. He cheated on you? He'll do it again! He doesnt respect the concept of love. Get out of this cycle; you'll never be able to build a life with him. Start to live your life for whats best for you! Meet new friends, you'll meet the man thats ment to be that special parf of you on the right time...
Good luck Karla*

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Permalink Reply by Karla on March 22, 2010 at 9:06pm

Thank youu Nickyy; that makes a lot of sense;
It has really helped me

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Permalink Reply by Alex Garcia on March 24, 2010 at 6:28pm

He CHEATED remember that always and as for getting him to want
you back ill leave that to your imagination and to get him
back ignore him and show him your happy without boasting bout it
hell wanna know why your happy and ask you just play dumb like you
have no idea what hes talking and from there just start talking again

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Permalink Reply by princessa dw on April 12, 2010 at 1:58am

Let him go, he simply doesn't deserve you, you deserve someone alot better someone who will love you and never cheat on you. Letting someone go is the worst feeling ever, it might feel like the end of the world but remember theres alota guys out there that wont be so silly =)

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Permalink Reply by TyVon Spencer on April 13, 2010 at 6:18am

well, love is something tht keep someone going. but if he realLy cared for you like he said then you wouldnt be in this situation . there is always a second chance you should give out but is it really worth it . sometimes you have to just go with your heart and do what it tell you to do . so tell him how you feel and see what the outcome turns out .

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Permalink Reply by Karla on July 5, 2010 at 1:02am

Yeh, It's been five months since that happened& now i am single& happy.
you should read my last discussion i put up.
Its called the single life.

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Permalink Reply by R Mittelstaedt on July 7, 2010 at 5:13pm

Got your PM from July 4th and I appreciate it.
So yeah, thanks for the words, i´m 16, have cheated, have been cheated, and believe me, the thing you need to do is look at the situation reflectively. I fell in love with a girl that was everything for me. She simply stopped loving me and I was left there just like that. I then realized she still loved me but she was ashamed of what she had done. Never let the past interrupt a beautiful future. My best friend once told me that sometimes you have to go to realize who chases after. Thats life.
You have to understand that we all fuck-up sometimes.
I read that you want him to like you, or for you to stop liking him. I would stop liking him by getting involved in other activities, going to parties, doing whatever you like. Love dares you to change the way you care about yourself, but if it destroying you, simply stop. Because love should be about trust and friendship. Someone that hurts you is not your friend. I bet there are many boys seeking someone that will love them the way you are capable of loving.

Hope it helps.
Your friend, Richard

pd. sorry for the spelling, english is not my first language.