well it depends on how you met, and how he knows you, in a relatinoship always be true even if it starting or ending.
"honesty is the best policy"
some guys treasure the virginity of their girl because mainly they looking at the girl to be theirs forever, some just want to boost their machismo image, some are just wanna experience it, but one things for sure, if they found out that they got you the first time, they will never ever forget you in their whole life.
But always, if the guys truly loves you he will not bother if he is the first, as long as he will be the last.
I think it it really depends on the guy's age and how much experience he's had in the past. It also depends on if he's used to just sleeping around or if he's been committed and been in long-term relationships. Most guys understand that for a woman to lose her virginity, it's a big deal; it should be special and memorable. However, there is a small percentage of guys who don't care and just want to get in your pants.
A man should not judge you on if you are a virgin or not. It's YOUR body and it's your decision to remain one or not.
being a boy myself.. i would say yes virginity does play a important role in every relationship.. as for me i would love my gurl to be a virgin.. love can take shape in any form.. i dont think any guy falling in love for the first time would like his love to not to be a virgin.. its said some gurls goes beyond the limit of virginity...sotimes even if you not a virgin and the boy is he feel unsafe and he will be having 2 minds during his relations.. so thats all i can say my frd...be true in your relations.never play wiht a guys feelings.. even we men have a heart
girls plays.. boys plays....that will never change.ppl just in continuous search of better choice..guys who manipulate girls knows they can get you..by showing their charm to the extreme..or girls get impressed and switch over and leaves boys abandoned...if same thing happens to them they become wild cats...why every time he has to love you.. why he has to keep your trust..why cant you try to give him a love and keep his trust one who have rather than just keep messing with other guys jst to try them ..if you have him.. make it happen....its just about keeping trust ....
as you said