hello there! i'm bhelle and badly needed your advice! I met a guy who i never got interested to fall inlove with...i don't know what's with me to not like this guy....he really loves me and doing everything for me..but, I just can't learn to love him...yet, we have already a child but i can't still accept his wedding proposal.

But im still hoping for one day, my true love will walk towards and ask me to marry him..I do believe that we are deserve for each other and not the father of my child...how will i get out of this mess?

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i think you NEED to tell him how you feel i know
that sounds crazy but if it was the other way around
you would wanna know...right? well anyway thats my
advice...sit him down be kinda and then im sure he will
handle it fine.i mean he deserves sum1 who will love
him too...

well i hope that everything turns out right for you,him and the baby!
xox
hey! thanks to your advice...its not that easy..i could hurt him terribly!! Is there any other way to avoid hurting him?
well tell him he would understand.
hey! thanks...i hope i am brave enough of telling that to him...i would hurt him terribly!
Tell him frankly, truth will set you free, truth hurts!

"honesty is the best policy" :)
You need to tell him the truth before it's to late and you have to spend all your life beside a person you don't love. It's up to you to decide if you really wanna leave him. Remember there's a child who needs a family, a strong one.
I am torn in two options girl, whether i leave the man and ruin the life of my child or stay with him in my entire life just to see my child happy. I don't know what to choose..do you think will i learn to love the man in the end?but i guess, it's really difficult to love him..because of somebody inside my heart.
i also think u should tell him so that he knows how u feel about him rather than eccepting the proposal or acting as if nothing is wrong and spending the rest of ur life with him. just tell him and let go.
hey annabella...
its strange but lets get to the point..I have qs for you. i dont understand this, if you dont love him y did you get pregnant?was it a forced relationship where it ended in sex?over here you just thinking about urself.. y dont you put it the other way.how would you feel if your husband told you the same what you need to tell him?
now the whole things is the innocent child is suffering all this.. think about the child.. all i can say is wait for some time.. its just time that matters..your love now is ur husband.. dont wash hand off him.. dont think he is not noticing whats going thru you.. but i guess hez for sure not speaking coz he cares for you and the child.. dont think men are not wise and caring..
thats all my frd dont spoil relations where the worst can come back to you..
over here understanding and unity plays a big role and you must allow this 2 things in ur life..
ALL THE BEST DEAR AND TRY TO SPEAK AND UNDERSTAND HIS FEELING TOO.. TAKECARE..
Thanks for the advice...well, about your question, we were friends and sex just happened between the two of us when my past boyfriend left me to work abroad. Yeah, I admit, I got pleasure while were having sex but pregnancy was out of my plans. He told me to keep the baby and pursue my pregnancy because he is too much inlove with me. I had no choice for fear to be a single mother so I accepted him.

I guess, someday you will be right, I will learn to love the father of my child. Thanks!
just teLL him what was your feeling beLieve on yourseLf be sure that you reaLLy don't Love this man 'cause maybe one day you just wake and the father of your chiLd was not there anymore and you just reaLize that you Love this man think twice and be sure of your feelings to the father of your chiLd :)
goodLuck on your decision :))
maybe you just need some time to love him, but if nothing happens, tell him the truth, and don't worry for your child,at least he will continue visiting him, i mean, many childs never see their real father, or mother:(

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