Your Love Story In Real Time.

Tell me what you think...I need some good advice!!!!! Please!!!!

I fell in love with my best friend 5 years ago. I no longer feel the same actually but something confused and intrigued me today. I didn't have the chance to tell him about how I felt before. We never really talk about me falling in love with him, we in fact avoid that. I tried to ask him just now and he said he's not ready to talk about it. Shocks, that was 5 years ago!! It kind of confused me because I thought it would be harder for me to talk about it but it turns out that it's even harder for him. He can't even talk about it. I laughed about this at the same time confused. What was that all about? Why can't he talk about it???

We were really close before. We know each other too well that we can't even keep secrets from each other. It's like there's no need for words. One look at each others face and we would know exactly what the other one is feeling.

He's with someone right now, same with me. I am very happy. I'm just wondering why he can't talk about it. I just wanted to know how he felt about it before....

TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK PLEASE... should I continue asking him? or just forget about it?

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Permalink Reply by dimples fate on July 17, 2009 at 10:36pm

maybe he also feel something special for you,& just shy to tell you coz he dont want to break your friendship
You said your happy now,so dont care to bother about such things,both of you have partners already,,so focus on your relationship,,& forget it anyway,,,youll know the truth wen hes ready to talk about it,,you know each other well,try to respect his decision for this matter

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Permalink Reply by Aubrey on July 20, 2009 at 11:51am

Yeah. I think you are right. Hmm.. its just that I can't help to be curious about it. I was really in love with him before. I never thought that he felt anything more than friendship.. and it really surprised me when he couldn't even talk about it. But I think that respect should be there.. thanks! :)

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Permalink Reply by Jess on July 20, 2009 at 3:51pm

Heres what I think...if you are both happy in relationships then don't ask him, it may make him feel strange and in a way feel like he's cheating. As long as you are both happy then theres no need , however, if you do still have feelings for him and you think that maybe he could have feelings for you, you have to talk try to talk to him about it. You'll never know until you try.
Good Luck :)

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Permalink Reply by Aubrey on July 20, 2009 at 4:06pm

Thanks Jess! well, i just got curious.. its been 5 years.. i think im brave enough to talk about it. I just wanted to know how he felt before. I'm asking as his friend now.. I was thinking maybe we could both laugh about it or something.. :)

yeah but you're right.. there's no point in talking about it now.. THANKS! ^_^