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Permalink Reply by sally casmi on August 10, 2010 at 5:13am

Love, Im in the same boat. But Im 25!!! I believe that guys are attracted to fun loving girls, not try hard, easy girls who act fake to get attention. Just hang out with your friends, tell them to invite some guys and go out in a group. This way you can see their personality without going through the dreaded unnecessary dates. If you like one of them, then talk to them one on one casually. You'll be fine. Wish I did this! It gets harde as you get older. Best of luck :)

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Permalink Reply by Karla on August 25, 2010 at 6:33pm

ohmygosh! thats good advice! good thinking! thank you so much!! :D

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Permalink Reply by Nicky on August 24, 2010 at 5:40am

You will not find him, you'll find each other. No matter how much you're looking for him, he'll only comes in God's time.... meet friends, enjoy life and wait until you bump into him.... i never knew what the older people ment by "you'll just know".... and today this might sound as silly as it sounded to me, cause how will you know.... it happens different for everyone so i wont know how you will know, but i just knew when i first saw him.... its up to you if you're gonna get involved with a few wrong guys, if you wanne cry your heart out sometimes because of lost loves (though this is also part of life). Its up to you if you wanne experience all off this or just wait until you meet him.... like you said you're still young... there's plenty of time.... if you truly loves God you'll let Him settle this for you.... i know this is not the solution you want right now, but its the best suggestion, i promise*
Good luck Karla*

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Permalink Reply by Karla on August 25, 2010 at 6:34pm

Thank you so much, you make such a good point. thats all i have to say, you've left me speechless cuz your so right.

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Permalink Reply by Confused Me on September 3, 2010 at 2:45am

Hay sweety well i am 17 not a big difference right? so when i was about your age i wanted the same thing so bad but Karla what about you just let him come to you. God will send everyone the right person for all of us.
He's gonna come to you when you just dont know. Or HOW about hes around you. you just have to open your eyes.
I hope u ll find. until then enjoy your life the way you are cause' later u will regret doing something wrrong . trust me. i've done it

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Permalink Reply by Karla on September 3, 2010 at 6:10pm

I believe that also, that God will send him to me, But i guess since I've gotten out of a long relationship I'm just missing that companionship but your obviously right I need to wait& possibly he is around. (:

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