thoughts from the heart of a brokenhearted..

it was just months ago..and evreything is still clearly etched in my mind and heart..

it was feb12,09 when we met at their house to spend the whole day together with his family..the last t ime we did it was last december..(his not my boyfriend anymore that time..but he told me that if we can find time, well see each other like the way it use to be..)


everything was close to perfect..

as if theres a chance for us to make our relationship formal again..

but i prove myself wrong when the day of the hearts came..

it was evening when he texted me..

he ask me if were happy..and i replied.."yes, we are"

he asked again.."were ok,ryt?"..and i replied again.."yes ,we are"..

and his next textmessage broke my heart..

he told me in a nice way that it was almost 5 months ago that were separated..
and in that 5months he tried to fill up his emptiness to me..

and his last line totally broke my heart into pieces when he told me that..

"im starting to like someone else..and im about to date her..i hope ur happy for me.."

and now, im in the stage of total acceptance..

i never got the chance to meet his significant other..
though i BADLY wanna know whos that girl,still i know it will just hurt me..

it was jsut 2 months ago..

there were times i thought ive alredy move on..but deep inside me i know i still love him..eventhough he dont love me anymore..(stupid me!)

anyone??could give me advice..

yes i miss him, but i hnestly wanna get over him..

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Permalink Reply by baby ann dela rosa on March 10, 2010 at 6:52pm
nance, u know what?? his not worthy for your love.what u have to do is go out and meet people,participate in some activities.dont mind him anymore. as much as possible try to open your heart with someone whom you think is always their for you in times in need.
Permalink Reply by Alex Garcia on March 15, 2010 at 10:11pm
He still cares about you cause if he didnt he wouldnt have called to let you know that he had his eyes on some one else. The only reason he did that was to get you jealous and miss him even more but believe me he misses you to
Permalink Reply by laura contreras on March 16, 2010 at 6:42pm
first of all u dont have to go out everyday n drink beer
thats like throwing ur life away for someone that doesnt matter
the longer u been wit this person the longer it will take to move on
it took me a year to move one but i was only wit him for a year
trust me there are other guys out there that will love u
its goin to take some time to move one but it will happen
try to hang out wit ur family or friends or talk to other guys
thats how i moved on

hope this helps :)
Permalink Reply by Taffney on March 16, 2010 at 7:53pm
The fact that he just used you displays how much he truly cares about your feelings{which is none} you deserve better then him..wayy better. Right now it hurts like a motherflipper but you will rise. Try forgetting about him by doing things that occupy your time so you not jus laying around moaping..
Permalink Reply by yuie on March 23, 2010 at 5:00pm
hi, im perfectly new w/ this site but i already like it........well sometimes things we dont know wont hurt us but we always wonder what if...right?so if I were you have a chance to meet both of them and then find something that will make you busy...work for example or business....you know the only way to move on is to look ahead and let the footprints of the past be blown by the wind of time.....arasu :)
Permalink Reply by Manoj Patil on March 28, 2010 at 9:28pm
hiiiiii
dont be get upset
is you need any help contact me on
manojp046@gmail.com
Permalink Reply by Madhu sudhana rao on April 1, 2010 at 3:11pm
i love the way u love
Permalink Reply by lovely jade lopez on April 2, 2010 at 9:19am
i know how it feels not be loved by the person whom u wanted 2 be with.
it takes time for us to forget our feelings. but sooner or later maybe our hearts will heal.
Permalink Reply by liera phols on April 29, 2010 at 6:35pm
nobody wants to be alone.....so in other words find someone who think btetter than him and try to prove that u can move on without him.......
Permalink Reply by LiAm on June 10, 2010 at 10:48am
darling its normal..
-that thing happened to me for many times but see i'm stronger now..
-just accept the fact with all your heart..don't afraid to meet his girl..believe me,this will help you to move on..
-the fact that you see him with somebody else the more you get strong and positive..
-don't let your heart over your mind..
-make it work at the same time..
-it will be hard at first but eventually you will be okay..
-just face it..set your self free from any heartaches that he can give you..
-just think that god has plan for you..
-just trust him..
-if he's not for you then you belong to someone better than him..(",)
Permalink Reply by Cody on June 24, 2010 at 7:35am
Yeah, I hate when people say, "If you loved me, you would be happy for me." They say that after you just invested a whole lot of time, emotion, money, and life on them. No, I love you, but I am still really mad at you. Why go from being so close to being just friends? That's going from having a great family and being popular to having your best friend be your mom.
Permalink Reply by Sasha on June 26, 2010 at 7:53am
Hi, dear. I'm from Russia, & I've just read your story & decided to say what i think.
First of all u must understand that it is life, & very often it is very difficult, u must know it, U MUST BE READY TO IT. if u think so it is easier to undergo, trust me . if u understand, that anybody can leave u, anybody can betray u, u are ready to it. i know it's hard but we have to , otherwise it's so hard when someone betrays u. if u don't believe -- it's difficult to betray your trust. i know it's very important for girls , i mean "love" but better not to be very close to a person/ it's hard but u must be strong))
about this guy// he is not good... if u want to forget him ( u must forget him cause he is bad) don't do anything, that can remind u about your feelings// really, to forget a perdon is not easy, the proces takes place in our mind. when someone leaves u, it is like an addict stops taking drugs..... so it is dam hard, try not to think about him, don't visit places u visited together, don't listen music u used to listen together, stop doing everything, that remind u about him... EVERYTHING!!!! TOTALLY!!! throw away, or hide all his gifts, delete all his messages & may be in2-3 month u will feel better)))
Good luck!!!

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