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Permalink Reply by amolraj on October 15, 2009 at 11:12pm

LOOKING A SERIUS THERE FORE I AM TELLING
FIRST SHE HAVE TO THINK THAT TO WHOM SHE IS DOING ROMANCE IS IT OKEY FOR HER AND IF YEAH THEN HE CAN
BUT IF SHE DONT KNOWS HE IS RIGHT OR WRONG SHE HAS TO CHECK HIM
NOW THERE IS SO MUCH TIME GONE
SHE HAVE UNDERSTAND HIM THE TIME AND PROBLEM
SHE HAV TO TEL HER BF BY TELLING THAT IF HER BOY FRIEND FATHER WHEN DONE ROAMANCE WITH HIS MOTHER AT THAT TIME IF THEY ABORT THEIR CHILD THEN HER BF CAN'T ABLE TO COME IN THIS WONDERFUL WORLD THEREFORE I THINK THAT SHE HAV TO GIVE BIRTH TO THE CHILD

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Permalink Reply by amolraj on October 15, 2009 at 11:12pm

TELL ME WHAT DO U THINK

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Permalink Reply by cOurtnEy aNne on October 16, 2009 at 1:36am

it's more right to do what's right. dont abort the baby. 'coz it's a blessings. and pity that man because he won't see such a wonderful creature. dont think about anything else, just think about the baby. her parent's anger would pass as time goes by. and everything would be alright. sounds good ha??? :)

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Permalink Reply by dimples fate on October 18, 2009 at 3:05am

thanks guys for the adivice......she very doubtful wat to do
she cant sleep at nyt ,,,,,,,dont know wat to do.....
pls pray for her..

thanks

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Permalink Reply by Jennifer A. Guangco on October 18, 2009 at 9:40pm

kindly tell ur friend that the baby is an angel.. the babay doesnt have to be secrificed.. if she's afraid of the consequences, she shoud have thought of it before she and her bf did the thing. and about her bf that doesnt want the responsibilty,tell him to grow up
and if he really dont want to, let the baby live and never allow the guy to see his child.. its isnt easy but thats the only way to let the guy grow.,if ur friend is thinking of the hardship and responsibilty, well she also have to grow and makes up her mind,

having untimey baby is not pretty but responsibilty goes with pleasure.

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Permalink Reply by sally casmi on October 22, 2009 at 9:21pm

I know that they should both take responsibility for this scenario, but if he's acting the way you described than its better if he was out of the picture! She shouldnt let him influence her decision about whether or not she should keep the baby. Only she can decide this. Either way, he's not for her. Better she found out now...... and to think she wanted to marry him!!! He's clearly not husband material or father material. Even if she did marry him, he will run away from any problem they have in the future. This is not love. Just because she's having his baby doesn't mean she has to stay with him. Tell her she deserves better.

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Permalink Reply by sky on October 30, 2009 at 10:37pm

What's done has been done, what she can do at the most is face her own family alone. If they get angry, let them be.They have the right to be angry ,anyway. But , parents would always be parents..they are her best allies, since the man has who impregnated her has "no balls";she has no other support members at her side, other than her parents. Ask for forgiveness, and face the consequences of those actions. Plead for their support so she can go on with her pregnancy. That is, i guess, the best decision. Good luck!

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Permalink Reply by Rashi Agarwal on November 17, 2009 at 4:52am

Hi Dear,

This situation is really tough to handle . i understand her problem ....If you are really a good frnd of her please help her to be mature enough & get this baby abort . see, i know its very difficult , I can understand her feeling in though i respect her too. But be practical, she is not able to handle this whole stitution alone...atleast one should stand on her right either her bf or her family members......but, no ones there for her....so, its better to get this abort.....One more thing..........dont trust a person who cant stnd with you when you are in trouble........think on other side its true this is very early to have a baby right now bcoz both of you are also dependent on your parents ...you both are not having your standing .....so, be enough mature & parctical .........this is not the right time....if you choose the baby on your behalf then also its difficult bcoz no one is there to help u.& if the guy is ready to help even in that case also its too really first make your now standing ....have sum good position in society then plan for a baby...........please excuse if any of my words hurt you.

Take care..May god resolve your problem earliest .

Rashi Agarwal.

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Permalink Reply by Nicole Kupra on December 2, 2009 at 10:35pm

just kill her boyfriend

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Permalink Reply by MeeZtSiniTa0o5 on December 4, 2009 at 7:25pm

For me, your friend should tell this to her parents so that they wouldn't be shocked if they know it on later. And for her boyfriend, i think your friend must leave him..! he is so coward and so irresponsible! Yeah its their fault... No one gets blamed.. But if i were on your friend's part, i would demand that the guy should give monthly money for the expenses of the baby.. That should be his responsibility.! Thats all... ^_^

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Permalink Reply by arianne cruz on February 24, 2010 at 10:03am

"it's really a sad story...but you can no longer changed anything that has happened all she need to do is face the truth,move on and start a new life.it's not the end of the world.maybe at first her parents will get angry with her but im sure they wont neglect her,a parents love is noble and unconditional.she have to accept her mistakes and learn from it, and ask for forgiveness.and for her baby..it's a gift from God,despite of what happened be thankful for it,because god has given her one of His miracles.everything happens for a reason.for her boyfriend..its his lost,not her lost,he don't deserve your friend.he is a stupid guy who doesn't think what will happened in the future just to satisfy his desire.forget him he is nothing!"

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Permalink Reply by marissa on February 26, 2010 at 7:27pm

WELL I THINK SHE COULD HANDLE IT BY HER SELF SHE DOSEN'T NEED A MAN WITCH HE'S ACTING LIKE A BABY BECAUSE THEN SHE GOING TO HAVE TO RAISED TO BABIES AN WELL I THINK ONE IS GREAT FOR KNOW, I THINK BOTH OF THEM ARE OLD ENOUGH TO TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY BUT IF HE'S GIVING U THE ( IM GOING TO KILL MY SELF! ) I THINK SHE SHOULD JUST BE VERY STONG AND SHOW THAT DUM GUY THAT U MAY NEED A MEN TO CREATED A BABY BUT U DO NOT NEED A NERD TO RAISED HIM, SO I WILL JUST TELL HIM THAT I DON'T WANT TO SEE HIM ANY MORE AND THAT TO LEAVE AND NEVER BROTHER U AGAIN, AND SHOW NOT ONLY TO HIM BUT TO THE WHOLE WORLD THAT YOUR STRONG AN NO MATTER HOW U RAISED YOUR BABY YOUR HAPPY IM SURE ANOTHER GUY WILL TAKE U WITH THE BABY AND HE'S GOING TO LOVE A LOT! AND FOR YOUR PARENT'S TRUST ME ALL PARENTS WILL ACT LIKE IF THERE NOT GOING TO HELP U BUT THEY WILL TRUST! ;) JUST DON'T LET THEM KNOW UNTIL YOU START SHOWING A BELLY THAT WAY THEY WILL NOT TELL TO ABORT THIS BABY WITCH FOR SURE DON'T DO THAT CUZ U WILL REGRET THAT, JUST HAVE IN MIND THAT SO MANY WOMEN OUT THERE CAN'T HAVE BABIES AND FOR SOME ONE JUST TO KILL A BABY IN A MINUTE !

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