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wat will u do if your preggy & ur bf dont like the responsiblity?

my friend have this problem,,,on ur part wat will you do?
here it goes......
shes pregnant & her bf dont want to have a baby yet! responsibility!theyre both 23 years old but the guy have no work & my friend is the breadwinner of the family...shes very problematic ryt now coz her parents myt kill her or let her out of the house..she dont know wat to do.....but she said that she dont want to kill the baby,,,,,its both their fault,,,so she accepted this outcome though it hurts a lot & wait for further consequences of the problem they both made...she regret wat theyve done but its both their fault...
but the problem is the guy dont like it,,,he said that hes not ready & felt very sorry for my friend,,,he said hell commit suicide.hes afraid to face her family,,,this guy telling bout suicide thinks very immature....coz he dont have principle in life!
y he should commit suicide wen he will not be the one to be pregnant???or its just an alibi in order to stay away from this problem?
.hes very coward guy,...i hate him
.but on my firend amy shes badly hurt coz her bf want to run away w/ ds problem....she did not forced him to marry her,,,.but its ok w/ her not to have marriage of this preggy thing....hes acting like a teenager....he becomes cold w/ her
wat will she do?break up w/ the guy?shes really afraid to tell her family...i felt very sorry for her..

wats ur opinion guys???pls do help my friend...
the guy is really a loser,,,,

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Permalink Reply by simon lee rothera on March 5, 2010 at 6:04am

well your friend is having a baby so u help her rise it with her. get out off your parents house u 2 get a flat and rase the baby with her

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Permalink Reply by oOo.H!sPr!NCeSs.oOo on March 30, 2010 at 11:59pm

To look at it from my perspective... he is afraid... but he has every reason to be. Considering that he does not have a job and is un stable... really scares him... I would be scared too.. Having a child is defficult, there are a lot of respnsibilities that come a long with a baby... But its ok. He has to accept it and needs time... For right now, the best thing for your friend to do is to focus on herself and her baby.... They both need to accept the situation and no matter how hard it is.. they must face the facts.... including thier parents...

No matter how old you are and how stable you are... having a child is a beautiful but scary thing as well. You have a life in your hands forever and all you want is the best outcome.. but when yo have nothing...its scariest.. Good luck... I believe he just needs time.