he's a type of guy does'nt want to have a serious relationship with a girl but i do love him much as i expected.for him every thing we've done is just having fun but that fun was turned into a serious feeling that we never expect to feel that's why we decided to cut-off all the communications we have but it's too late because i fell in love with him the problem is he is still not ready to have an affair ta a girl.He's now gone and its too hurt for me to accept the realty that he left me after all what happen to us.what can i do for him to come back,by the way he is not my boyfriend .