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Permalink Reply by melissa on January 1, 2012 at 9:46pm

you'll know its love when you don't have to question it.

Permalink Reply by Sofia F. Serrano on January 26, 2012 at 11:04pm

don't rush things..maybe what ur feeling is just a mere infatuation..

Permalink Reply by Sofia F. Serrano on January 26, 2012 at 11:32pm

juz enjoy the friendship with that guy right now..

remember, he could have girlfriends and change them as much as he wants..but u, as his friend is irreplaceable..

just wait...hehe, you'll gradually know if its really true love..it may also be that what ur feeling is love, but in the level of friends..

_its normal to think that ur in love with ur bestfriend, esp. f he's material boyfriend..and lots of girls like him:)

Permalink Reply by Ronak Kothari on February 29, 2012 at 8:55am

Okay.. I get your point.. so here is my solution, try it..
First, ask yourself the following questions. Do you feel jealous when he is around some other girls and flirts with them.. do you feel possesive about him? For the time you've known him, do you think he is always there for you or will be? If you find reasons to love him, then you actually don't.. one thing, a proposal mostly wont ruin your friendship.. but a break up will.. thats the difference.. and it is not necessary to feel that it is wrong to express yourself.. if you talk bout this with him, it will only un-complicate things between you both.. so according to me, you can try to express yourself to him.. if hes a great guy who understand you truly, I can promise you that nothing bad will happen, either way.. good luck! Hope this helps you! ^_^