"I am usually not this honest, but you are in quite a mess.
You need to think about this reasonably:
1) Does your boyfriend actually have the means to care for a child?
2) Do you?
If the answer to both of the above questions is no, then consider…"
"If these boys have "girlfriend"s, then it is probably not a good idea. But realistically, none of these boys will be serious about you. They can't be. They are just boys. So why not go on a date with the joker? Or any of them? Next…"
"Ok, well there are really two different opinions here. First, there are the people who openly regret losing their virginity to someone to whom they were not married. And then, there are the people who refuse to admit the fact because then they would…"
"Wow, and you just believed that? You know, flowers and romance do just a good a job as sex for showing a woman you care. In fact, it does a much better job because you cannot be suspected of engaging in that activity for selfish reasons. And…"
"When that promise has been formally made, then it is lawful only to follow it. Until then, you should exercise caution. What will be right might not be right always. But by all means, enjoy your time with him. You seem happy."
"He probably still cares for you. Sex can be a powerful hunger for a man, and for a teenage boy who has never been convinced about self-control, sex can lead to perversion and become consuming. He probably pleases himself and views erotic material.…"
"Yeah, I hate when people say, "If you loved me, you would be happy for me." They say that after you just invested a whole lot of time, emotion, money, and life on them. No, I love you, but I am still really mad at you. Why go from being so…"
"How romantic. Let me tell this story from his point of view:
"Man, my girlfriend is such a loser. She doesn't have sex with me enough. And she is always trying to make me do things. She might even know about me cheating on her. Hmm. This…"