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Comment by Nicky on August 20, 2009 at 5:29am

Hi ting tuned into Shafys discussion and saw your question and if its oky with you, i wud like 2 give you my opinion also. The reason 4 your guilt and shame is because you know in your heart that its wrong towards your friend. I once had the same problem where one of my friends bfriends start flirting with me. He was rather cute and came to a point where i had to decide if im going to just let it pass, get involved or tell her about it. I decided on letting it past, but because it did not stop i had to tell her later on. She was hurt by his actions, but came to realise hes not good for her. It did not take him long to be involved with another girl after her.
This girl seduced you without any guilt towards your friend and EVEN you. Because she put you in a state where you are betraying your friend. Why didnt she just brake up with him and give him time to heal and than maybe later on told you bout her feelings? (Though relationship with a friends ex dont usually works out). No, shes now in a relationship with him as well as you. You should consider your friendship with him and decide which are the most important? Just remember if you go on without stopping this you are going to be the cause of him being hurt really bad. Cause it will be a double betrayel - from his real best friend and the girl he loves dearly. Please just walk out of this if your heart is true...

Comment by ting grajo on August 20, 2009 at 1:32am

hi...i thank bcoz of u r a good listener and adviser...i want also to share a problem of mine,which i cant forget...i have a friend and this friend of mine has a girlfriend..and every weekend were gone to the boarding house of my friend to have some fun,and drink some liquor.
then one night the gf of my friend told me that she really likes me,she always sending me SMS she's trying to catch my attention until she did.
now i dont know what to do bcoz of i love her,i have shame on myself and guilt everytime i see my friend,. help me...?thankz,i have to go now i

Comment by ++zhai++ on August 14, 2009 at 8:03pm

how could i control myself??
i can't get rid of getting jealous with my bf's x....i'm so insecure with his "x", since they had been in a relationship for 3 years..:( and were just almost 3 months for now??i really love him and i also felt he does...

Comment by Shafy Adam on July 7, 2009 at 12:44am

different people has different views. spot love might find you your destination someday. when you find it you wont go for another spot. you will remain in the same for the rest of your life. you might find it from the first person you meet. in that case you dont need to go for another spot.

Comment by jusaila on July 6, 2009 at 5:55am

i always thiking to put somebdy in myheart but when i see onether beauty i will think a change is better. I am understanding spot love is better. while I see they.....

Comment by Shafy Adam on July 6, 2009 at 3:30am

distant relationships work very rarely. but if the guy loves you in real he wont leave you for beauty. and if he gets attracted to some other hot babe than dear you better leave him before he dumps you. because if he couldn't value the beauty of your love then he is worth it. and you shouldn't feel bad or cry for him, cuz he wont be worth that even. thats just my thought my dear, rest is up to you. i think if he is the one for you then you will end up together atlast.:) good luck.and thanks for asking for my advice..am glad to give my suggestion

Comment by Jesrine Ronquillo on July 6, 2009 at 3:20am

what will i do if he's going to other city because of his studies? i think he will become busy & he can see some beautiful girl than me? what will i do?