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Comment by rj lawrence valentino muy gwapo! on August 19, 2009 at 9:08pm

don't just decide by heart, sometimes it is neccesary to use your mind. in t5his practical world of ours, there are two kinds of persons: the one who betray and the one being betrayed., the loser and the winner, the one been tricked and the one who do the tricked. listen to what your heart is telling you but hink about it first. marriage is not just an ordinary thing, it means lifetime involvement. pray for it that god will guide you to make a better decision.God bless.

Comment by Emma Norrington on August 11, 2009 at 6:54am

No one can tell you whether to say yes or no but you. I'd say stick with him if you believe he has changed, but tell him that right now you're just not ready to get married. Tell him to ask you at a later date. You can't marry someone while feeling like you're not ready for it.
Again, it's your choice. Don't bank everything on what I've said I'm too young to fully understand.
I hope this helps.

Comment by Desiree Dipay on July 31, 2009 at 10:48pm

...when you think its the right time for you to say yes, say it,,

Comment by chene vd Westhuizen on July 31, 2009 at 6:06am

this is ur only chase 2 say yes so if i was u id say yes

Comment by Kimberley Payne on July 20, 2009 at 10:38pm

You should say yes...if you know n your dat he has change....n u see him progessin....n he is your true love....then say yes....i mean u can only find dat one true love...he has already change...an wants u to be his wife...da only thing that keepin yall apart is your answer....so do wat your heat tells you....to do...

Comment by oOo.H!sPr!NCeSs.oOo on July 20, 2009 at 2:16pm

Another thing.... Marriage is not just about LOVE & TRUST..... It's about sharing a lifetime together and building a foundation. Will he be able to BE ONE with you? WIll he be a good husband, and father to your children? Is he strong enough to stand by you through the good times and the bad? IS he the one for you? ARE YOU THE ONLY ONE FOR HIM?

IF you say you are not sure to any of these... then you are not ready!

Comment by oOo.H!sPr!NCeSs.oOo on July 20, 2009 at 2:12pm

No one can tell you yes or no because the final decision is yours.....

But to me.... I would say no. WHen you marry someone, you have to have love and trust. How can you marry a guy who leaves you with doubts? HOw will your marriage be? Just because he's changed a little doesn't mean anything. He is probably giving you a little more attention and he is telling you sweet things to your ears, but he already knows... that you will fall for his words.

When someone really loves and cares for you, you will know have no doubts. But if you're confused about him... just give it sometime... or just let him go. It definitely isn;t the right time to say yes.....

FOr me... it takes a lot more than just words and small affection to get my heart.... I look at everything and the whole picture.....

BUt again, it is up to you.... but be very careful because..... you are opening the door to an unknown world.... that can BREAK YOUR HEART or Make you the happiest girl in the world.

I think you both need more time together and build trust........

Comment by ronni on July 20, 2009 at 9:04am

go 4 it