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Sex Problem With My Hubby

I married to my hubby for 10 yrs. From day one of my marriage till now, i felt so terrible, frustrated and lonely.
I tink my hubby got sex problem. I cant touch or caress him. He dont care when i feel like having sex w him.
We will have sex once a month. Tats only when he need it, he will come to me. Our sex will last for about 10mins.
Its really unfair to me as a wife. I loved him so much.

I did my own research. Wearing sexy nightdress, smell good, massage him, email & sms to him
what i felt & i need from him & etc. No changes, he still the same person. No improvement in this
marriage.

I am so bored with this marriage. I tried my very best to hold my feeling & my marriage. I dont know
how long more i can endure my desire to have sex with my huby.

To all out there, pls help me.

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Comment by Muhammad Yameen on August 22, 2009 at 2:36am: i m gone tell U a short answer ...try n see
take artificial dick, wood or a mobile set
n use these things in ur pussy hardly infront of him
then he will must realize his self underestimate ..

Comment by Nae Nae Candy on August 21, 2009 at 7:31am: try and talk to him about how you feel sexually he might just understand.if he dont then move on girl cause you deserve to be happy.

Comment by scorpion on August 20, 2009 at 7:26am: Just ask him what is going on, and why he cant satisfy your needs, to be frank with you its hard to put a foot that wont fit inside the shoe, your trying to hard but still you need to respect both of your vows in you relationship.

Comment by Sweety on August 20, 2009 at 12:55am: hmmm you can tease him when he like to have sex with you, make him struggler when he aproach you,
make him ambress you, massage you then you can star slowly and give him your best

Comment by blanca lorrabelle on August 19, 2009 at 11:16pm: nope brigitte...sex is not needed anything if u really want to do it.especially when u really love your wife or ur husband.even how tired u are and when u saw ur love one and let ur feelings out then even how tired u are u still have tym to made love with her/him...i know theres something goin on thats why her husband gets cold.

Comment by brigitte on August 17, 2009 at 6:20am: i think married is not just about sex. if your husband- dont want to get sex with you.. maybe he have any reason why...
try to talk.. maybe he busy at wok,tired..sex is need a biig energy...and he dont have it..

Comment by Destiny Child on August 16, 2009 at 5:35pm: I can't tell the country were u are,but i'm in USA. 4049633487 is my number to call.
I haven't been i a relationship but...............?????. there is a question in every relationship and that is SEX.
The ruth of the hole matter is that your husband has a problem. But if i may ask Do You Have Kids? if NO. I will talk to you previtly.Call me or send me SMS bye giving me your phone number to call. Bye.

Comment by Justin Arokia Raj on August 16, 2009 at 12:28pm: You must try to understand his real problem. Try to observe him apart from the time you guys are in bed. This is just because you guys don't talk and express your love to each other. You must understand that he is having some emotional problem it may not be with you but also some other person in his workplace or anywhere. So figure that out and try to solve it. I am sure he will enjoy doing it with you and you will be satisfied after that

Comment by Justin Arokia Raj on August 16, 2009 at 12:25pm: You must try to understand his real problem. Try to observe him apart from the time you guys are in bed. This is just because you guys don't talk and express your love to each other. You must understand that he is having some emotional problem it may not be with you but also some other person in his workplace or anywhere. So figure that out and try to solve it. I am sure he will enjoy doing it with you and you will be satisfied after that

Comment by Aubrey Ann on August 13, 2009 at 3:11am: i think both of u need to undergo counseling to save ur marriage and sexual life...if u and ur husband were not sexually compatible, i think u will not be totally happy and u'll just end up frustrated...be REAL with ur feelings, tell him everything...and if he didn't listen...then decide if u want to let go....