My ex and I dated previously for six months, we left one another for a year for neither of us was ready. We remained close friends. A bout a year after the break up, he got into some trouble and went to treatment. Since I was still close with the fmaily I felt very sad he was so far away and told his parents to tell him I love him, he sent back the message I still love you, that should give you something to think about. I than could not sleep that next day I received the letter to explain it, he told me he really missed me and hopes no hard times come up while he's gone since he was always the one I called. He told me he hopes we can take it slow and redevelope our relationship. He caught me heart again right there. Another week went by and he told me he was ready. We decided to date even though we could only see eachother on pass and talk through letters. He got out on the second of this month, everything was going great. He wanted me to move two hours away from our home town with him to start new. I couldnt do it so we continued dating long distance with four day visits here and there. Than it came. I had decided to go down there with my sister her fiance and his little brother for three days. We arrived late and he had an attitude toward me around my sister but when she wasnt aeround he was fine. keep note my sister and him previously dated and shes six months pregnant. It was like everytime shes around him and i fight. He dislikes fighting and the saturday before I left we broke things off. No one seen it coming. Now his family is throwing a surprise birthday next weekend for him and asked his sister her kid and I to come. Him and I still havent talked. Do I go down there? What do I say or do? What did I do to make this so wrong? help