I hate how much I LOVE HER!! IF YOU really love someone..

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Posted by ARLu on February 27, 2008 at 10:41pm

it started in a class where i was sitted beside her.. i fell in love with my clasmate.. and then we were together in a funny dramatic thrilling and full of action relationship.. i thot everything will be perfect..
ONE EVENING i received an email from a GUY it was my gf's x.. he was telling me that they went to a mall and stroll watch movie.. that GUY told me jenny and HIM are still having a relationship.. she was unfaithful.. i hacjed everything and i end up reading all emails they have... it was so painfull all i dreamed was wasted until.. she told me that she left that guy and chose me.. she had a dvd i ask her who gave her that dvd and she answered that she bought it.. i trusted her again and accepted her sorry because i really love her.. when i borrowed her phone ( i never got her phone since that guy showed up, they were texting all day and night) i got the guys cel no. i ask the guy did u gave that dvd to her..??? and he said yes.. i let that guy described the dvd.. sad to say it was all correct.. the guy gave that dvd to her and the guy love her so much.. she lied again though i know i wasted my trust.. i still love her and given her a chance to begin our relationship with full trust and no more lies.. i know im so crazy about her and all i know is i love her even though she was unfaithful.. Im a HUMAN i can forgive her.. because i really love her.. i am willing to forget her past just to be with her.. now tell me IF YOU really love someone can u do this or more than this?? that is the question what is YOUR ANSWER???

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Permalink Reply by arlu1222 on March 4, 2008 at 12:06pm: hmm ur name is arlu??
me 2 haha
n if i reli love someone, i would let him/her go. cuz if they keep lie on me so many times, it means then cant feel happy w/ me. so i would just let them go.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Nitin Jain on March 6, 2008 at 9:43pm: well friend i must say you are a teriffic lover but only loving someone doesnot allows you to play with your own dignity. I must say you should leave the girl at the moment only wishing that the other guy would accept her and they will live happily. For Us that is Indians love is not getting it is giving and i personally believe that this is the best way to love someone as if she loves u truely she will come to you and if she doesnt she did not deserve a lover like you

Wishing u luck for life

Friend's

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Permalink Reply by A on March 24, 2008 at 1:23am: hi
think u should let her go. she's cheating on and u cant be BLIND forever. relatonships are all about trust and there is none in ur relationsh man coip with her. shes using u and doesnt value ur love. she feels thre is something lacking in u rel with her thats why she is with someone else. if she dumps him, shed get another man coz she is just not satisfied with u. GET OVER HER co z its not going to last; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by ashley k. t. on March 27, 2008 at 10:46pm: wel'it's kinda hard,,.but u gotta choose..it's either you continue to be wid her and giving her all the love you have, or dump her. of course you would be sad.but atleast you know you wouldn't be cheated..; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by lindsay on April 4, 2008 at 8:59am: TO LOVE SOMEONE IS NOTHING
TO BE LOVED BY SOMEONE IS SOMETHING
AND TO BE LOVED BY THE ONE U LOVE IS EVERYTHING!

as said by few people here down trust is the basis of relationships cause u dont always trust the one u love but u always love the one u trust. let her go! u will soon have some honest and faithful partner by ur side. i promise u that :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Joe on April 7, 2008 at 6:29pm: Hey man, i went throught the same thing you did. My ex girlfriend cheated on me 2 time and i forgave her because i thought i loved her. now that we are apart i think back at how stupid i was. You dont need that pain in your life man, even if u think u love her, she dont love u or else she really would of left that man. she's just playing with you u'll find another like i did and now im even more happy then i ever was but i may take a while. it took me 3 years to find one; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by dee jane on May 4, 2008 at 2:52am: a wrong deed with out valid and concrete reason is not considerables over and over again....have you ever ask why she did that? me? if there's a valid reason and that involves me, why not..i'll give a try over and over...but not with a reason dude....cause if i'll do that, i'll be making a fool out my self and to others.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by christina sese on May 5, 2008 at 10:22pm: i think its time for you to let go your stupid feelings for her.. She's a liar and she doesnt deserve your trust.. even if you love her so much you still have to gain love and respect for you self...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by heaven on May 10, 2008 at 3:00am: hi arlu!!!
hmmmm...its so hard to be in that way,but try to love urself first.......if she really loves u she wont do anything that will hurt ur feelings but then she keep on doing that...try to find sum1 hu can make u feel happy.....just let her go!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by smartgirl on May 15, 2008 at 5:05am: aww...this truely hurts. This exact thing has happened with me... and I cried my heart out for him... if the girl is two timing, then tell her that if she wants you, to stop... but if she keeps doing this, then it may be best to break up... try to calmly talk about it. Ask her if she feels like you're not doing something to please her. She sounds passive aggressive... I hope everything works out :'(; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by ARLu on June 15, 2008 at 11:53pm: im happy now without her!:); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by kristine on June 15, 2008 at 4:02am: i think you trusted her tooo much... ur being TANGA already, knw wat wen a person hurt u once then it will agen be repeated...
dnt let love control ur life.. let ur self be in control... move onn, theres so much beyond the love u have for her... just discover...; ▶ Reply to This

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